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I can?

6:43 PM

oh

6:43 PM

I'll do that

I have this other voice in my head to whenever I try to talk to benn he kinda says the opposite of what benn says

7:30 PM

it's annoying like benn can say yes then it's going to say no it's hard to distinguish but benn has more character to his voice meanwhile the other voice is just tempting to believe

7:32 PM

that voice is mostly very negative too so it isn't like you can go with it

7:32 PM

showed up yesterday

7:35 PM

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glitchthe3rd

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKBXFfEPJyg

I personally prefer sleeping one 20h phase saturdays and one 3h phase each other day (im joking)

im having big issues w talking to my tulpa, ive tried so many diffwrwnt things and it never seems to work

what’s it like? (I cannot think of how to properly word right now, heh)

You’ve tried for about a week, right?

9:51 PM

I’d give it more time trying the methods you do know.

Atlas || M&M

You’ve tried for about a week, right?

just under

Jumping from one thing to another might make it even harder.

Skyler 🐉

what’s it like? (I cannot think of how to properly word right now, heh)

she just doesnt speak really

Atlas || M&M

Jumping from one thing to another might make it even harder.

ah

don’t keep expecting failure

ive been talking to her quite alot

9:53 PM

and i feel like shes there

9:53 PM

but shes just not talkative

I feel like I’m doing a horrible job wording things, I’m sorry

Skyler 🐉

I feel like I’m doing a horrible job wording things, I’m sorry

no no ur fine!

try asking her to talk a little more? Maybe ask why she hasn’t?

im having big issues w talking to my tulpa, ive tried so many diffwrwnt things and it never seems to work

@🪷 - jump elizaa you are so busy checking different methods you distract yourself from having a tulpa lol

oh

oh that’s a way to think about it

you are making it hard for yourself

I think I am going to walk away now, my brain is just deciding to not

9:57 PM

it just isn’t

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

you are making it hard for yourself

i am yes

9:59 PM

im trying to make it easyer but idrk what to so

9:59 PM

do*

Blaff

that voice is mostly very negative too so it isn't like you can go with it

I found out its most or likely a facet

im trying to make it easyer but idrk what to so

@🪷 - jump reading all different ways of what to do is not helping apparently

10:04 PM

you are distracting yourself

true

🪷

im trying to make it easyer but idrk what to so

Your tulpa can point at things and send you thoughts and images and words, they can surely already talk, you are likely not parroting. You are just not letting her talk. "Ugh, that was just parroting..."

10:12 PM

You want your tulpa to talk and yet are actively deciding it wasnt your tulpa. (edited)

how is your tulpa supposed to talk if you just go and read more advice how to overcome parroting

10:15 PM

it's a bit like reading guides how to get job instead of going for a job interview

Its like trying not to think about a pink elefant

anyway i'm not criticising or judging, i'm just poiting out a potential issue

Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

You want your tulpa to talk and yet are actively deciding it wasnt your tulpa. (edited)

yeaa i have doubts but im trying not to

Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

Its like trying not to think about a pink elefant

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10:19 PM

Trying not to have doubts will only make you doubt

10:20 PM

Ask something to your tulpa and let them answer with a sentence, just let them. When they answer ask them if it was them, let them answer with their head. That might be reasuring.

okok

Some people might find it easier doing it in another format, like, letting your tulpa write on a keyboard or reading their lips or whatever proxy you like. This is true because they dont fear parroting when they use this proxies as "their tulpa is not speaking", and yet, its the same as speaking. That is also the reason why your tulpa can move and act independently, because you dont fear thats you, you just accept it.

yeaa

10:28 PM

tysm for the help!

im no longer doubting val

What happened?

11:02 PM

What did you do?

so basically

11:06 PM

benn (a seperate tulpa not mine)

11:06 PM

met valentine

11:06 PM

and benn said he wants to be friends w her

11:06 PM

and val got the biggest smile on her face ever

Oh, but nothing to do with vocality

11:07 PM

I thought she was talking

yea but its still good that she did that

11:08 PM

better than nothing!

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

it's a bit like reading guides how to get job instead of going for a job interview

Bad example

Why lol

Because It helps to prepare for an interview

key word: "instead"

Is it normal that me and all of my tulpas are all emotionally connected?

how do you mean?

𝓘𝓴𝓸𝓵 𝓛𝓪𝓾𝓯𝓮𝔂𝓼𝓸𝓷

Is it normal that me and all of my tulpas are all emotionally connected?

We are

Like, um

Almost perfectly (Sometimes not, and certain members have disconnection from our emotions)

1:02 AM

But in general, we share

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

how do you mean?

For example, if one of the members are sad I get sad too

berockly (TTG)

But in general, we share

Ohh okay, I see

For us its Everyone shares the same emotion

1:03 AM

(Since we dont mentally feel them, afaik)

𝓘𝓴𝓸𝓵 𝓛𝓪𝓾𝓯𝓮𝔂𝓼𝓸𝓷

For example, if one of the members are sad I get sad too

That's normal, i think Since you share a brain and it will be very easy to feel empathy for your members Eishi and me have somewhat separate emotions but i can feel his very strongly, like more strongly than i would an irl person

well you are in the same brain and in the same body. emotions in a big part felt in the body (some people are just not aware of it), so if you and your tulpa are not disconnected from the body you might feel same emotions however that opens up nice opportunities for example if you love your tulpa and your tulpa loves you, your brain experiences love, being loved, and on top of that self-love which is a beautiful gift

Why is it that when I start thinking about tulpas or the tulpa itself (benn) he starts talking more?

Probably because he's on your mind and easier to focus on That happens to me too

Yeah

6:08 PM

Whenever I'm not he's pretty much dead

Yeah i think it's normal not to hear your tulpa too much unless they have something to say, or if you're talking to them or thinking about them

Would you say your tulpa satisfies your need for socialisation completely or do you still to need to talk to people when sometimes you feel lonely?

I still feel lonely I feel less lonely, but if i hang out with the same person/people all the time i get lonely anyways and since my tulpa is around all the time he doesn't completely make me less lonely

I still enjoy having a social life outside of my system, I think I’d go insane otherwise.

6:17 PM

Socializing with a tulpa is great, but it’s kind of a “closed circuit”, if that makes sense. Sometimes you still need to draw in energy from external sources (interacting with others outside your system) to feel fulfilled.

I mean your just talking to another facet of your brain

Atlas || M&M

Socializing with a tulpa is great, but it’s kind of a “closed circuit”, if that makes sense. Sometimes you still need to draw in energy from external sources (interacting with others outside your system) to feel fulfilled.

Exactly, I feel the same. That's my major problem.

And your brain overall needs other people

It's like you can't trick ur brain. I think it's because you can't get completely surprised by ur tulpa, whereas other people could surprise you.

I get surprised by my tulpa He says some funny things sometimes lol But i do feel a lot more connected to him so it makes sense that i don't really get "socialization" out of talking to him

I got surprised by benn today

Kei Wendt

I get surprised by my tulpa He says some funny things sometimes lol But i do feel a lot more connected to him so it makes sense that i don't really get "socialization" out of talking to him

It's similar to how i don't fill my socialization needs by hanging out with the family that i live with

When you’ve known the people in your head for three years, it gets harder.

6:21 PM

You start to know every one of their mannerisms by heart, as if they are your own. You’re connected to them physically, after all.

Atlas || M&M

When you’ve known the people in your head for three years, it gets harder.

Can't they just act the complete opposite

Atlas || M&M

When you’ve known the people in your head for three years, it gets harder.

Makes sense I've only known eishi since the 13th so i've still got a bit to learn